Monday, December 31, 2007

The War Begins Now!

At Mulu cave Resort at 5 July 2007


The Diagnosis.
On the 14th Nov. 2007 my husband Norman had a right sided facial fit followed by numbness of the right hand. It lasted 2 mins. and he went back to sleep. 2 days later I took him to Pantai hospital to see a neurologist. An MRI was done and the x-ray showed a massive brain tumor on the left temporal side. The neurologist said it was a malignant tumor!! Our whole world collapse before us!! We could not believe it, could not accept it and definitely not ready for this bombshell. How could it be? Norman was fit as a fiddle, He doesn’t drink or smoke, Has no hypertension or any kind of illness. He treks up Mount KK, Sabah like an arrow and even climb up the vertical Pinnacle, Mulu, in Kuching on the 7th of July 2007!! And all this while he had a tumor growing inside his head!. The learned Dr guess that the tumor could have been growing for at least 6 months! Maybe he got the wrong X-ray ya? No, unfortunately, it was Norman’s X-ray and the diagnosis….GLIOBLASTOMA MULTIFORME. It was like being pass the death sentence when you are innocent.
[ The prognosis of this deadly tumor is 3-6 months if untreated ] We cried and cried and we hug each other and we cried and cried…..


The Surgery – 21st November, 2007

The tumor is very aggressive and need to be removed as soon as possible. There was gross oedema in the brain causing him speech impairment, memory loss and fits! We need a very competent neurosurgeon to operate and we need it fast! After consulting 2 neurosurgeons, we decided on Dr Lee Foo Chiang at Sunway Medical Center. On the 21st November ‘07, the evil beast was excised after a two and a half hour (2 ½) surgery. Norman was wheeled into ICU for 24 hour monitoring and nursing care, Dr lee told me that the tumor is a grade 4 tumor! My world came crashing down again! Brain tumors are graded according to malignancy, grade 1 being the most benign and grade 4 the most malignant.

Norman recovers amazingly well. There was no surgical side effects like seizures, loss of memory, further speech impairment, infection and excessive bleeding. Praise god! We came home on the 3rd post op day. It was like the nightmare was over but in fact the battle has just begun!! The long road to recovery lies ahead and we are not ready… yet!



Radiotherapy and Chemotherapy-17th December, 2007

Getting ready for radiotheraphy

Complete surgical removal of GBM is not possible. Even after the most successful surgery, residual microscopic tumor remains. Dr Lee managed to remove more than 90% of Norman’s tumor. He is a brilliant Neuro surgeon. The prognosis of survival depends very much on maximal removal of the tumor. The aim now is to kill off the remaining cancer cells by conformal radiotherapy [RT] and chemotherapy. After seeing 3 oncologists we decided to choose Dr Foo Yoke Ching at SJMC for our RT. A total of 60 Gy of radiation [30 fractions] is given daily, Monday to Friday over 6-7 weeks. Saturdays, Sundays and public holidays are off days. Each fraction last about 1-2 minutes only as the brain is too delicate to receive too high doses of radiation. Daily Temozolomide [temodar] 120mg is taken orally before radiation. Temodar is a radiation sensitizer drug. Clinical studies have proven that the addiction of Temodar to RT improves long term survival benefits with minimal side effects.
Common side effects of RT are hair loss, nausea, vomiting, fatigue and loss of appetite. So far, Norman haven’t experience any of these effects yet. Praise God! Radiation necrosis [total destruction of nearby healthy brain tissue] occurs in 25% of patient treated with RT. Additional surgery might be needed to remove necrotic tissue if it causes severe reduction in mental functions. According to schedule, Norman will finish his treatment on the 31st january, 2008. Estimated cost of RT and chemo is a whooping $80,000.

Dear friends, your comments and suggestion will be a great encouragement to norman and myself. As this is the first time I am creating a blog, please excuse any mistakes in my blog. Please feel free to pen a few words as it will greatly encourage me.

Quote of the day:

A friend is one who sings loudly witn you on the mountain top but walk quietly with you in the deep valley


16 comments:

Beyonder said...

Mum , this is my first comment on ur website. Good start

sereen said...

Dorothy, thanks for your update. I like your quote of the day...very true. We are always just a step behind you!! Take care :-)
Sereen & william

Nicholas said...

Wah.... my mum so hip. Have her own blog some more. Haha. Hang in there dad. You can beat this thing. We are behind you 200% all the way.

Unknown said...

Datin..u r perfectly a GREAT wife & mum...KAMPATEI..

BiiK007 said...

Datin...please hang i there, i can see that Dato' is getting fit as a fiddle & with GOD's graces he shall recover as all of us here are praying for his speedy recovery & as usual, ask Dato' not to worry so much. Nicky is doing a great job handling the factory & as a matter of fact, I'm learning from him as well...so, Nick, hang in there as I'm behind u all the way. Anyway, GOD is with us all the time & may all of HIS blessings goes to you & ur family.... GOD Bless!

Javia said...

Hi Dorothy,
You are wonderful! Well Done! You are really ...hip.

You have choosen the best tools to update all your concern friends on Norman's status.

Keep it up! KAMPATEI for both of you.

May God be with you always!


















































































































































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chrbtim said...

Dear Dato’ Norman/ Datin Dorothy

God Heals
Remember when you heard the words -
and your mind went blank - you were in another world
God heals
Remember in your darkest hours -
when all that surrounds you is pain and sorrow
God heals
Remember friends' prayers - your family's encouragement
- glimmers of hope from everyday angels
God heals
Quiet...you can hear Him now -
always there - yet never this close
God heals
It's just another day -
yet everything has changed - and you hear yourself say
God heals
Birds are singing -
the sky is a beautiful blue - flowers are blooming...
God heals
Truths that you knew as a child -
awakened again with new understanding
God heals
Remember when others can't -
that life is a gift - each day to treasure
God Has Healed

Cancer is so limited...
It cannot cripple love,
it cannot shatter hope,
it cannot corrode faith,
it cannot eat away peace.
It cannot kill friendship,
it cannot silence courage,
it cannot invade the soul,
it cannot reduce eternal life,
it cannot destroy confidence,
it cannot shut out memories,
it cannot quench the spirit.
Cancer is so limited!

May God Bless Our Prayer..
Management & Staff
CHRB Timuran Sdn Bhd.

Anonymous said...

Mum, whatever Dad is going through this time now, i believe that God is definitely gonna do great things for him. I'll be bringing my friends from church to this blog and they too are so gonna bless u! Keep in faith and never worry. Peace!

dorcas said...

Dot,I'm sure your blog will be a big encouragement to others.Paul says in Gal 2:20, the life I now live is not my life, but the life which Christ lives in me;and my present bodily life is lived by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself up for me.So may His peace, faith, love and joy be yours and Norman's.

Anonymous said...

hello
do agree with you being hip.
glad to know norman is coping well too
keep it up!
y moi

Anonymous said...

Hi Dot ,

We all pray and hope that Norman will recover soon and hope to see you guys in the gym again .

My blog is at : http://franktan.blogspot.com

warmest regards,
Frank

Anonymous said...

Dear Dato Norman,
Today is the beginnning of a new day.
God has given this day to use it as i wish.
I can waste it or grow in it's light.
But how i use this is important.
Because I have exchange a day for it.
And when tommorrow comes,today will be gone forever.
I hope I will not regret the price I pay for it.

Let all of us value everyday.
Happy Birthday to you.

Dr Wong Fort Pin said...

Dear Norman,
How are you?
I am viewing your blog because I have a patient trying to see Dr Lee. Today.
God bless!

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Unknown said...

I just found out i have 5 to 6cm tumour inside my brain..planning to consult Dr Lee

Unknown said...

Hi, is Dr Foo Yoke Ching a Christian. Appreciate for your answer to make a decision in choose the right doctor. Thanks.
Reply to tinghan06@yahoo.com